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For Some Syrian Christian Refugees, Christmas a Sorrowful Time

People carry a survivor from the rubble at a damaged site after what activists said was heavy shelling by forces loyal to Syrian President Bashar al Assad in Damascus on 26 December. Many Syrian refugees found Christmas a difficult time with the ongoing violence in their homeland. (photo: CNS/Bassam Khabieh, Reuters) 

26 Dec 2013 – By Dale Gavlak

AMMAN, Jordan (CNS) — Some Syrian Christian refugees taking shelter in neighboring Jordan did not have a happy Christmas, fearful for their uncertain future as the violent conflict in their homeland grinds on past 33 months with no end in sight.

“Just see how Christians in Iraq were targeted on our sacred holiday, Christmas Day, in Baghdad,” said Abu Reda, referring to bomb blasts that left at least 37 dead.

The 30-year-old Catholic entrepreneur once ran a successful beverage business in a suburb of the Syrian capital, Damascus, but now collects plastic containers from the streets to sell just to feed his family in exile.

He and his family of four huddled in front of a TV that broadcast Christmas programs over a Christian satellite channel in a cold, sparsely furnished apartment in the Jordanian capital. He used a familial name, rather than his given name, to protect relatives still in Syria.

A pair of calendars for the coming year with pictures of Jesus and the Holy Family adorned the otherwise bare living room walls. There was no Christmas tree in sight.

“Christians are being targeted in Syria. I was one and that’s why we fled here,” said Abu Reda.

Islamist extremists’ repeated threats of kidnapping and death forced Abu Reda and his family to flee about a year ago. The final straw was the killing of a cousin by extremists and the destruction of a family home.

Fighters from the Nusra Front, an Islamist militant group linked to the al Qaeda network, began putting messages on his shop’s door and later on his home.

“Selling alcohol is forbidden,” the messages read. “We consider your money to be ours and we’ll turn your wife and children into our slaves.”

Shortly afterward, Islamist rebels kidnapped his father and held him for 15 days until the area where he was being held was overtaken by the Syrian government military, which released him.

Later, a cousin was kidnapped. The family was given too short a time to collect the ransom money, he said, and the man was killed.

Although Abu Reda discovered that at least two men threatening him were former employees, reports to the Syrian government security services did nothing to stop the threats.

“The men warned me, ‘We will follow you wherever you go in Syria,’ “ he said.

“We knew we had to leave because of the lack of central control and chaos now reigning in the country,” he added.

Abu Reda’s wife sobbed as she recalled the events.

“We are far away from our family at this Christmas. It is difficult. We want Christians to return to Syria as well as peace to come again to our homeland,” she said.

Unlike in other Middle Eastern countries, in Jordan, Christians from Western and Eastern traditions tend to celebrate Christmas together on 25 December, according to the Gregorian calendar. Likewise, Jordanian Christians from both traditions celebrate Easter together, according to Julian calendar.

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